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During the year 2006, My journey took me to the Australian capital for a medical school interview. I assumed to arrange lodging after getting there, but once I got there, a large conference was taking place and all the backpackers hostels and budget accommodation were fully booked.

Coming from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind maybe I could spend the night at the airport – but quickly found Canberra airport, unlike Singapore’s, is not open around the clock. Unsure of quite what to do and feeling increasingly desperate, I boarded public transport and began walking near a gaming venue, thinking I could pass those hours in a place operating all night. This was not ideal in the ideal condition for nailing the admissions interview the next day, yet, as a student on a tight budget, luxury accommodation was impossible.

The world needs more folks who show such kindness.

I must have looked out of place because a female student noticed me wandering around the city and asked if everything was alright. I recounted my situation and right away she suggested I was welcome to sleep on the floor at her university residence at the Australian National University – which was perfect, as that’s where the important interview was the following day. She even offered me some free dinner: one sandwiches she had from her evening job. This gave me the bathroom and a secure location and secure to sleep.

With hindsight, I now understand the significant risk she took as a young woman allowing a man who was a complete stranger stay in her room. At that time I operated under my male privilege bubble and did not consider about things like that. As a dad now, I am astonished she took that chance – and remain deeply appreciative.

I never did study at the Australian National University, and I never saw the student afterwards, but I’ve never forgotten that incredible gesture of kindness. It is my wish karma has rewarded her act of kindness tenfold. We could all use more folks like that woman.